Yes, I was one of those girls who went to study abroad to go and "find themselves". But the more I attempt to find myself, the more I find the things I already knew about me. So why would I come here and find the things I already know about me and stress over them? I have come to the conclusion that it includes a step I had not seen before. If I actually change the things about me I had always wanted to change then I wouldn't have to search for myself. When I know the kind of person I want to be, and transform into that, then I will already know myself in the end because it was what I had been striving towards. I guess I could find somethings I am good at that I never knew, but I feel like this whole journey will be about changing into the person I want to be.